Here is a picture of the order form I got for the 3 kits. I lost the little brass hat and small spring that was at the bottom of the metering valve assembly so that was miscellaneous parts I got with my three kits. Almost surely your metering valve is stuck. If you can get it out in one piece, maybe you can just clean it up and reuse it all. If it don't leak, maybe you could get by without the new rubber parts but as long as you have it apart, I believe it would be beneficial. I didn't soak mine in anything since it was not too bad just dirty and gunky. Once you get the metering valve out, you can take a long 1/8" punch and drive the brass cylinders and the seat out. Here is a video of a guy rebuilding a Kelsey Hayes unit.
Proportional Valve Rebuildable ?
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