"This entire chit show would have been avoided if Jim would have taken 30 seconds to check a message and reply to ANY of the messages I sent!"
Now this is over, you have your part and I am truly sorry for the long delay. I should have taken 30 seconds, you are right.
I got side tracked with everyday life stuff : currently in the process of going through my mom's 2-1/2 story house with full basement (she is a bit of a pack rat) which is quite a process that I and my sisters have been working on for the past month. Hours of sorting after working a fuilltime job during the day, so my days are quite full. and the sorting continues on the weekend too. I also visit my mom 45 minutes away a couple times a week after work, as well as visit my brother who is in an assited living facility partially paralized and left compromised from a stroke. Also the weekend I should have taken the "30 seconds" too reply to keep you from posting how late the shipment was and your concern that I may have taken your money without shipping the part, I was in long Island NY for my son's college soccer tournament. I left at 3:30 am Saturday to get there in time for his first game and getting home 12:30 Sunday night or rather Monday morning (however you look at that). I was totally inconsiderate not to have stopped at some point and sent you a message though I was not on or near a computer at any time over the weekend.
I am not complaining about my life or the things going on, I am mentioning it so maybe you would want to stop for a second before making damaging coments about someone. You had in your mind what you felt was an appropriate time to respond and since that time frame wasn't meant it was, to use your words Buyer beware of JEJJ.
I say all this to you so you might stop and think that maybe there are other things going on in other people's lives that are consuming their time at that moment. Not that you need to feel sorry for anyone and not that you sould not say something, but maybe choose your words/actions a little more carefully.
I have had things occur in my life lately that have put things in a different perspective for me.
I am not angry, I am more dissapointed in this whole situation.
I don't check messages on this site as I should even if I come on here for a quick look. I should have sent you an update, I honestly have just skimmed e-mails if/when I have been reading them that aren't pertaining to personal situations that current have my immediate attention.
I wish you all the best with your project and I am done with this post.
Moving forward I will not post anything for sale again unless I can devote my complete attention to it, from posting through sale.
Thank you to those who had kind words for me, I appreciate that, I have worked hard over the years to treat people as I would want to be treated and I fell short with this situation.