A lot of these questioned would be answered if you were to contact the people that sell these kits. Better yet , contact the companies that make these kits. They all have departments to answer these questons and their info will be current. Remember companies are always doing R & D to imrove their products and the info you get from someone in an email might be from an experience 1,2 or 3 years ago and may not be current. Also as we all know because we have all done it ourselves , some peolpe don't read the instructions and then blame the product. When doing suspension work of any kind , you must realize that anything you do will have compromises. We are driving street cars, not race cars. Drag/road race cars use totally different suspension set-ups and don't worry about things like dips, pot holes or off camber corners. Decide what you really want before you spend your money.
Isn't it funny how most of the advice is based on " one of my buddy's did this ..."